The experiencing that is you is in relation to all other actual and contemporaneous experiencings as if the whole that is made up out of these is a real unity. That you are confined to this one, that the galaxy of other experiencings is structurally veiled to you is just what makes this what it is. This paradox is at the heart of human life - it goes from the whole down to the individual but it feels and is motivated is if it went from the individual towards the whole.