Non-duality is not a metaphysics, and not is it a state or experience. Perhaps it could be described as the end of seeking, of the very root and branch of seeking, but then you must ask what seeking is, that is out must seek out seeking, which is itself for the most part a venture or option towards its own questioning. In trying to say something about your own action you are caught in a trap from which you cannot escape by going forwards or backwards.