Group mind embodies will, seeks energy and acts by predation, having no qualia or affect, no essentially subjective experience and yet is intelligent in an individual there are associated affects but these are never the goal of the actions. Specifically human relations which individuate have the inner experience of the other at or their centre, the body is essential to this, but merely somatic changes are not enough. There seem to be ways in which such inner experience directly communicates between selves, although indirect mediated communication is more than possible and easily becomes confused with the 'real thing'. What is illuminated by such a theory? And what is forgotten or missed?