At the core of all negativities lies abandonment, from the distress of an infant left too long alone to Christ's last words on the cross. What has abandoned you need not be something or someone in particular but the very framework behind all events and acts of willing, call it Being or the gods if you want, it is that element in actions that makes them more than what they seem, that enlists reality itself to swerve towards some kind of ultimate positive outcome. Without this everything is only just what it is and leads only back to the very place you now and forever find yourself.