Where there are two of you the overlap of highly divergent contexts means that neither can be fully individual to the other. You are merely types in the other's field, but each knowingly delivers to the mutual scene a fiercely individuating consciousness, a single world that is all the world and that is centred on an originating and radically unsubstitutable absence. It is your experience and nothing else, and the intercourse between you is motivated by this metaphysics, first and last. Strange encounters ensue on ritualised acts of selection, and part of you thinks also of 'Selektion'. The ritual is the indispensable supplement. After how many such encounters do we become individualised to or for each other? What is revealed that was not there from the start, or long before it? There is no limit to what is sought.